Updating the family losses
Due to the kindnesses extended by friends and family, my daughter and I will now be able to attend Tom’s memorial service next Saturday. Which is also my Mom’s 81st birthday.
My Saturday began with a call from my sister, asking “Hasn’t the family had enough to endure?” And it was downhill from there.
Matt, the coke-addict brother, saw his wife sentenced to a year in jail last week. This morning, a call came that he had been in a traffic accident last night and was life-flighted to a Tampa hospital, where he was in ICU, unconscious and on a ventilator.
My Mom, a brother, and Matt’s two sons hopped in the car for the drive an hour away. They discovered he was critical but stable, sedated to keep him out due to a small hematoma, his breastbone’s broken and he may have breaks in his spine. But the early prognosis is no paralysis has occurred and we think he’ll recover.
The rest: He was DUI, and either out of anger or on purpose, with a passenger involved, was driving erratically, lost control, went down into a culvert, back up and broadsided a parked van. But for a couple of hours, I thought I might lose two of my three brothers in the same week.
The Gods must be angry, eh?
To: Earl, Copeland, Palamedes, Riggsveda, Avedon, KC, Flamingo, Susie, Jenny, Sarah, Becky G, BitchPhD, Hesiod, Emma, Rod, Ayn, Elise, eRobin, Annie, Morgaine, all the others who emailed, and especially Melanie, Fred, Lorri…..Thank you for your kind thoughts and prayers. Every bit of support has helped.


