The Edwards choose the best way: forward
Instead, Edwards said nothing would change; his campaign would continue and Elizabeth would be by his side on the road. Elizabeth spoke about the importance of her husband’s campaign, how the country needs him to be president. Both said there was never a debate yesterday, as they were receiving the news about her condition, about whether he should drop out of the race. John said that when the two of them were alone, Elizabeth was concerned about everyone but herself—her children, her husband and her country, in that order, but not herself.
He clearly meant it to be inspiring, but there is also something discomfiting about that statement. Even more discomfiting was Edwards’ claim that by soldiering on while his wife has incurable cancer, he would be proving that he could deal with the pressures of being president. I wonder how voters will react to that sentiment.
Edwards is staying in the race, so the effect of today’s announcement on the Democratic contest will be limited. But there will be an effect. Despite his and his wife’s optimism, political professionals, donors, activists and regular voters will all have to wonder going forward whether or not Edwards will be able to stay in the race all the way to the end. It is certainly true that with effective treatment, Elizabeth Edwards could live many years. But it is also true that even the best treatment isn’t always effective, and that bone cancer is particularly lethal. Edwards’ supporters, and surely many average Americans, have to be wondering at what point the candidate will decide that his duties as husband and father to three children, including a 6 and 8 year old, trump his duty to his country and the cause of winning the White House.
He continues to the conclusion that if Edwards drops out, it will benefit Gore because both are (1) white, (2) male and (3) populists.
Carney is wrong. He overlooks a few key points in his analysis. For one thing, a majority of the country has moved beyond old limitations and biases. In head to head matchups, current polling has white male candidates in second or third.
With Betty Ford and Nancy Reagan as prior examples, Elizabeth Edwards will not be the first First Lady with cancer or an incurable disease. She will be the first to actively campaign while undergoing treatment, and while the public raises questions about whether she and John are right or wrong to campaign at all.
If the country’s ready to elect a woman or a non-Caucasian, are we equally open to consideration of a First Lady with a terminal illness?
I don’t believe we are, based on a cross sample of responses I’ve seen in emails to media reports today. But Elizabeth’s got that Betty Ford quality of using this as a teachable moment. The country may not be ready in March of 2007, but by January and November of 2008, there’s every likelihood that our biases against disabilities will follow those other biases into the past.
Much will depend on a full prognosis of the breadth of the cancer that afflicts her. I’ve known people still working more than 15 years after metastisized breast cancer spread to blood and bone. If Elizabeth’s has spread to her lungs, however, it could prove fatal much faster. That could certainly drive Edwards out of the race. But it also could produce another result entirely.
After all, the Edwards are as strong a team as FDR and Eleanor or Woodrow and Edith Wilson. It’s not just John’s ambition that propels them forward. Both believe they can serve the country with John’s election. So it’s anyone’s guess what they’ll choose if Elizabeth undergoes a rapid decline.

Personally, I admire her courage. I admire and respect the visible affection the Edwards display towards each other 30 years into their successful marriage. Elizabeth’s illness poses an X factor the country will likely have to contend with. And maybe we’ll all grow wiser and more tolerant as a society because of her.
Certainly, it will cause more women to pursue regular health checkups and will save many lives in the process. That is, in itself, a great service to society. And it may also elevate the election above the trivial and stupid, where Breck girl and faggot taunts can no longer thrive.
The choices belong to Elizabeth and John. Whatever they decide will be right. Who else has the right to determine how best to live out a life than the person living it? That Elizabeth chooses to live her live fully is the course of a champion. I join her and all her loved ones in hoping she gets to reign as a champ for many years ahead.
And may we all grow more enlightened and considerate from her example.
Update: Speaking of elevating the discourse, consider the eloquence and grace provided by Dean Barnett at Hugh Hewitt’s blog.
Andrew Sullivan, too.



March 23rd, 2007 at 12:35 am
Kevin, I disagree with your conclusion. The Edwards have made a private decision which affects their public lives and I don’t believe that private decision can be critiqued.
Let me remind you that life is a terminal disease and that none of us know how long we are going to be here.
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:38 am
PS: Jay Carney is a demonstrable idiot.
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:58 am
I’m not sure where my conclusion differs from yours, Melanie. I believe that some ARE critiquing their private decision and am stating that I believe those critics will learn and grow.
And I wrote “Whatever they decide will be right. Who else has the right to determine how best to live out a life than the person living it? ”
So I’m not clear what you’re disagreeing with. (And yes, I already concluded Carney was way wrong.)
March 23rd, 2007 at 2:54 am
“it may also elevate the election above the trivial and stupid, where Breck girl and faggot taunts can no longer thrive” - That would be splendid.
Isn’t it truly, deeply pathetic that it would take an incurable cancer diagnosis to do it–and even then, maybe nothing will change?
Sigh.
Great post, K.
March 23rd, 2007 at 4:28 am
[…] –Ezra Klein believes Elizabeth Edwards didn’t want her husband to quit and adds:”There’s a sort of subtle insinuation that sick people should crawl back into their caves and stay there till they either die or get better. But when you hear the Edwards’s discuss the idea that her cancer is now incurable, that it’s not something she will get better from and so not something where they can hit pause, wait for it to pass, and then resume their lives, you have to think that the question they’re asking themselves is not how can Elizabeth best get well, but how would they like to spend the rest of their years. And knowing her even casually, I’m not surprised to learn the answer is “fighting.”” –The American Street’s Kevin Hayden:”The choices belong to Elizabeth and John. Whatever they decide will be right. Who else has the right to determine how best to live out a life than the person living it? That Elizabeth chooses to live her live fully is the course of a champion. I join her and all her loved ones in hoping she gets to reign as a champ for many years ahead. And may we all grow more enlightened and considerate from her example.” […]
March 23rd, 2007 at 8:42 am
Kevin - when you say, “a majority of the country has moved beyond old limitations and biases” - I think you really mean those of us who keep informed have. That does not apply to the majority of the country, I’m afraid. Old bugaboos regarding cancer still hold sway - and with the right wing noise machine gearing up to use this information as a stick - I think you’ll find far too many people willing to dismiss Senator Edwards as a result. Consider the tenor of most MSM to date: doctors armed with dire diagnosis are being trotted out by the bushel - all more than willing to assign Elizabeth Edwards to an early grave. The question is then asked: how long before her husband drops out of the race to care for his wife?
Now - I know where she’s going for medical treatment. I lived in that area several years back; and Mrs. Edwards is really getting the very best that medical science has to offer. If anyone can find a way to treat this disease and function normally it would be her. Also - for talking head doctors to second-guess colleagues much better trained than themselves is ludicrous at best - but it’s being done - and not just by Fox News! So though I agree personally that her illness is simply a factor in the Edwards’ lives - I disagree that America at large will see it in just that light. I fear that they will see it as the MSM is presenting it - and that will, unfortunately, affect the Edwards campaign.
March 25th, 2007 at 11:38 am
I remember a time when the First Lady and Second Lady had but one breast between them. No one accused their husbands of using the women’s health for political gain, or claimed that the women’s health affected their husbands’ ability to govern/campaign.
I strongly suggest that if the Edwardses were Republicans, neither of these issues would arise in the mainstream media; rather, the talk would all be of the couple’s strength and commitment and courage.